The Role of Surrogates in Surrogacy: An Act of Generosity and Commitment
February 2025

Gestational surrogacy has allowed thousands of people worldwide to fulfill their dream of having a child. In this journey, surrogates play a fundamental role, as they carry a baby in their womb who, despite having no genetic link to them, will grow with love and care until birth. This act represents a combination of generosity, altruism, and commitment—essential elements for the surrogacy process to be successful and safe for both the surrogate and the intended parents.
What Is a Surrogate in the Surrogacy Process?
A surrogate is a woman who voluntarily decides to carry a pregnancy for another person or couple who cannot conceive on their own. Unlike traditional surrogacy, in gestational surrogacy, there is no genetic link between the surrogate and the baby, as the embryo comes from the intended parents’ gametes or from donors.
The decision to become a surrogate is not an easy one, as it involves not only a physical and emotional commitment but also the willingness to participate in a carefully structured medical and legal process.
Requirements and Selection of Surrogates
To ensure the safety and success of the surrogacy process, surrogates must meet a series of strict requirements. At Surrogate Mexico, we have a rigorous selection process to ensure that every woman participating in the program is in optimal conditions for pregnancy.
Some key requirements include:
- Being between 21 and 39 years old.
- Having had at least one successful pregnancy without complications.
- Being in good physical and mental health.
- Having no history of genetic or chronic diseases.
- Not consuming tobacco, excessive alcohol, or recreational drugs.
- Having a stable family environment with support throughout the process.
- Undergoing medical, psychological, and socioeconomic evaluations.
This selection process ensures that both the surrogate and the baby develop in a safe and healthy environment.
The Surrogacy Process for a Surrogate
The surrogate’s journey in the surrogacy process follows several stages to ensure her well-being and that of the family receiving the baby.
1. Initial Evaluations
Before being accepted into the program, the surrogate undergoes comprehensive medical evaluations to ensure she can carry a pregnancy to term without risks. Psychological evaluations are also conducted to confirm that she understands the process and feels emotionally prepared for it.
2. Matching and Agreement with the Intended Parents
Once approved, the surrogate is matched with intended parents whose values and expectations align with hers. A legally binding contract, notarized for validity, is signed to protect the rights of both parties and outline every aspect of the process, including compensation, medical care, and legal responsibilities.
3. Preparation for Embryo Transfer
The surrogate follows a medical protocol to prepare her body for the embryo transfer. This process includes taking hormonal medications to optimize uterine receptivity and ensure the embryo implants successfully.
4. Pregnancy and Medical Monitoring
During pregnancy, the surrogate receives continuous medical care from maternal-fetal medicine specialists. Ultrasounds and prenatal tests are conducted regularly to monitor the health of both the baby and the surrogate. Additionally, at Surrogate Mexico, we offer an emotional support program to ensure the surrogate’s well-being at every stage.
5. Birth and Handover of the Baby
The delivery takes place in a high-level clinic or hospital with the assistance of professionals specializing in surrogacy. After birth, the baby is handed over to the intended parents, who already have all the necessary legal documentation for recognition. The surrogate also receives postpartum care to ensure her full recovery.
Compensation and Benefits for the Surrogate
Participating in a surrogacy program involves not only a personal commitment but also significant physical and emotional effort. Therefore, surrogates receive fair compensation, established in the notarized contract.
Some benefits include:
- Financial compensation covering pregnancy-related expenses.
- Medical insurance and life insurance to ensure her well-being.
- Psychological and emotional support throughout the process.
- Legal support for contract signing and rights protection.
- Postpartum care for complete recovery.
An Act of Love and Generosity
Becoming a surrogate is not just a physical commitment but a profound act of love and generosity. These women offer the opportunity for others to build a family when they otherwise could not, making a significant difference in their lives.
At Surrogate Mexico, we recognize and deeply value the role of each surrogate in this process. That’s why we ensure they receive trust, respect, and care at every stage of their journey. Surrogacy is a unique opportunity to transform lives, and surrogates are the protagonists of this beautiful act of love.
If you are interested in learning more about becoming a surrogate, contact us. At Surrogate Mexico, we are here to guide you and answer all your questions.